Posted by:
Gullible's Travels
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Date: February 29, 2012 01:28PM
LK,
I have been reading your posts and my heart breaks for you.
I have not been in your exact situation, but I have been thru a time when everyone who was supposed to love me most completely and smugly turned their back on me at a very precarious time in my life.
I want to share what helped me, and it's worth only what you pay for it:
I cultivated a hot burning hatred and rage for those ppl whO betrayed me. That wrath and hatred gave me the strength and energy to deal with what I had to and kept the frigid waters of depression and self pity from consuming me by boiling them off and running on the steam.
I pretty much gave a big middle finger to all those who didn't care enough to be supportive, gave in to the rage, and GOT. SHIT. DONE.!
Give your rage and indignation a voice, feel the power in it and focus it into ruthless energy to fight for yourself and the kids that actually matter at this point in time and let the others go fuck themselves.
You are no longer a little Mormon woman who must never feel anything negative. You are a woman who has been systematically fucked over by those who you gave everything too and you should be angry, you should feel hatred and want vengeance. You are entitled to that and I suggest you use it to give yourself the energy you need to fight.
You CAN do this, LK, even if you have to get a punching bag and when you feel a bout of crying comming on, pound the shit out of it.
As I said before, my 2 cents is worth only what you paid for it.
I am rooting for you, girl, hang in there!
From one of my fav Otep songs: "Rise, Rebel, Make a fist, RESIST!"
(you may find the song inspiring, so here is a link:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-S3OMCl3vUo&feature=youtube_gdata_player)