Posted by:
anontoday
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Date: March 05, 2012 05:34PM
We spent our weekend "coming out" to our parents.
It sucked. A lot of heated, back and forth, point-by-point arguing.
Completely draining and depressing. Parents are broken-hearted and very worried about us.
Lots of second guessing. Are we just being too negative? Too cynical?
Got some information in the mail from my parent today about polygamy, which was given to her by my brother-in-law, who got it from his institute class. I think my parent really thought it was going to help me. I half-expected it to be something new, for the Church to have actually admitted some of the hard facts.
It's the same old drivel. Quotes from BY, JT, JS about how hard it was for them to accept this law from God.
Nothing about the methods used to procure wives. Nothing about how many they had. Nothing about polyandry. Nothing about "dirty, filthy affairs."
Parents are extremely concerned with our sources of information. This one point has me so, so, exhausted. They're so concerned about the negative spin they perceive on our sources, but they cannot see, for the life of them, that THEIR information is biased.
I've taken up a firm position of not discussing things with anyone anymore. It's all so much, too mind-boggling, too much information, soooo many things they don't know about which are FACTS, even quietly acknowledged by the Church, but they won't see that. So from now on, all I'm going to say to them is "I don't believe. I don't believe JS was a prophet, or anyone after him. I'm not going to practice faith in something that to me, is clearly a fraud. I have no motivation to practice faith in that. It comes down to: you believe it, I don't."
I'm wasted. I hate this sh*t.