Posted by:
closet questioner
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Date: March 24, 2012 12:15PM
I've been a non-believing, church-attending, calling-holding mormon for about 12 years (prior to that, I was a TBM). Over time, I've noticed evidence of my wife's slowly shedding mormonism.
About 8 or 9 months ago, she stopped wearing garments. Recently, we missed church a number of consecutive weeks for diverse reasons, such as vacations, work and even "let's just not go today" on one occasion. On one occasion, she went to church but was fine with one of my sons and me heading out for some outdoor recreation during church. She has recently been asking if I'm going to church with her, rather than assuming that I am. Maybe most significant, during a recent vacation with family, I told her I might have a drink with my siblings (almost all of whom drink). She didn't seem too upset and just said she'd prefer if I did it when she wasn't around. I didn't end up drinking, and I'm not in a hurry to do so. Also, she comes from a family with some history of alcoholism, so I can understand her concern with drinking. But it appears she might be OK with responsible alcohol use, which suggests that she has less religious concern.
Maybe I'm just seeing what I want to see. I hope not.