Posted by:
derrida
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Date: March 23, 2012 11:46AM
Anyone hear this one or a version of it before? I heard the above recently and in the past I heard a woman in testimony talk about how others had come and gone, but she had stayed faithful. She had seen how, for those that stayed, the church had "softened them," made them gentler.
To me this just seems, like much of the LDS church's internal consumption folklore, a way of spinning the necessity of people submitting so much of themselves and their time and energy to whatever the church asks. Few see or reveal the grumbling, the cogdis, the unhappiness, the difficult efforts at adjustment, that goes on privately.
Outside the LDS church, I have also heard countless reports from Exmos about the freedom and happiness they realized outside the church. True they aren't such suckers for missionary promises or ponzi schemes, but they get along with real friendships outside the membership.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 03/23/2012 11:46AM by derrida.