Posted by:
Chris Deanna
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Date: April 04, 2012 04:26PM
I finally realized why these past few years have been so difficult. There has been no sunshine because i HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO RECOGNIZE IT. There is NO ONE to tell me what to do. Divorcing husband (still find myself falling into old patterns of HIM ORDERING ME "You call so and so and tell them such and such." Then I get a clue and say, "Call them your self, I'm not your secretary!"
Since not attending church, I don't know what to do with my time. When children's father was in the home, we were so entrenched and poor that we would go to the church even on Saturday mornings and let the kids play ball. Once while nursing, sitting on the stage, I knocked away a basket ball just before it creamed the head of my new-born (now that's multi-tasking) and baby never broke the latch-on but kept right on sucking.
Some of our time is taken up with therapies and school activities but we have no real friends. Don't feel sorry about this (OR SORRY FOR US)...it is a REVELATION. A freedom to know what is hapening because now I can change it!
I'm so used to being told what to do and where to go and how to act (don't forget what underwear to wear) that I forgot how to steer my own ship with my precious children inside of it. So, we've been turning in circles. We need some fun! I'm open to all suggestions. Thanks for reading.