Posted by:
Dallin A. Chokes
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Date: April 12, 2012 06:53PM
I was working with a teacher from one of the church schools and he told a story to the students: he was reading a book that had some scandalous content (a vampire story with typically subtextual/sexual vampire-y elements). He was embarrassed to think that someone might come along later, pick up the book, and know that he had that book in his possession, so he tore out the offensive parts. The students were confused: "Why would someone care or judge you for the things that you were reading?" "What kind of friend would do that?"
The teacher was somewhat flummoxed at the outpouring of disdain his story was getting and tried to explain how it related to censorship and book burning. It didn't go so well. Later, he admitted that the book in question had been read in his mission, and that even though he liked the book, he was very concerned about how someone might judge him based on its content.
I have thought a lot about this--how much of what we read, watch, listen to, or even write down is dictated by the fear of what someone else (particularly while part of the LDS mindset) might think of us? Most of my journalling efforts have been primarily written in code that only I understand (especially my mission journals). I would have hated to have any of my "faithful" descendants read about the things I thought, struggled with, or actually did, and I credit this to my previously-unthought-of Mormon Paranoia.
Anyone else have a similar bout of self-consciousness based on the fear that someone, sometime, would find out about something?