Posted by:
anon4this
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Date: May 23, 2012 09:30AM
Last night I spoke with my TBM sister. She's one of those Clydesdale mormons that does everything without questioning. She asked me point blank if I still believe in Jesus as the savior and son of god. I told her no, but that I felt many of the teachings attributed to Jesus were valuable. We discussed the golden rule and charity.
Then I asked her a question: Does she think that a loving gay couple who are charitable are more or less likely than an wealthy LDS couple who pay tithing but do no charity to get into the celestial kingdom?
She answered that she wasn’t sure, but that she knew many LDS who are greedy even if temple worthy and it bothered her. She felt that a giving gay couple would stand a better chance before god than a greedy LDS sealed couple. This is progress for her.
I told her that I’d always seen her as the kind of parent that would sacrifice much of her personal happiness for her children’s happiness. She agreed that she strived for that.
Then I asked: If one of your children came home with a partner and told you she was gay and very happy in life with living her authenticity, how would you feel, Sis?
Her: Well, I wouldn’t hate her for it.
Me: Why is hate the first thought when reflecting on how you would react to a gay child?
Her: I don't mean hate. I mean that I would have reservations. Because it would still be hard to know that they do not live god’s commandments.
Me: I’ve seen that you would give almost any of your own happiness for your children’s happiness. Wouldn’t you also sacrifice in this case for your child if she were truly happy in a same-sex relationship?
Her: I think so; I would support it, for her happiness, but I would be sad because she wouldn’t make it to the highest kingdom.
Me: Why not? She’s a charitable, caring, loving and giving person. Surely god would recognize that and not hold against her who she chooses to love with all her heart.
Her: That’s not the way it works. God requires certain ordinances.
Me: So you’re saying that if two persons are equally loving, equally giving, selfless and helpful...Except one of these two spent ten minutes on an altar saying “Yes” to some words, while the other spent that ten minutes loving someone through service, God would say to the un-altar’ed person, “sorry, you didn’t exercise this trivial moment at the altar. You can’t enter heaven.” That’s the god you worship?
She hung up.
Did I go too far?