Posted by:
forestpal
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Date: July 31, 2012 02:59PM
"Angry Atheists." Sorry, but that was my very first impression. I was just barely inactive, and there was so much that I did not know yet! I was Christian, and I was not angry--but that was before....
After my children told me about he abuse they had suffered at the hands of adult Mormon leaders, I became one of the angriest posters. I became even angrier, when I discovered that so many TBM children and adults have been mistreated, marginalized, used, conned, and spanked, hit, and kicked--when they were good church members. After leaving, many RFM posters have been dis-owned by their TBM family members, divorced, shunned, slandered, dismissed from their jobs, expelled from BYU, and treated like dirt. Yes, that is abuse. Withholding the Truth, lying, brainwashing, using fake power to make demands, and conning people out of their money--all this is abusive.
I found out (to my despair) that my children were not alone.
I first posted on RFM to get an answer to a question that had been plaguing me for 15 years--"How can I get a temple divorce from my wife-beater ex-husband?" I had been given the run-around for all those years, by bishops and SP's saying that they would help me get a temple divorce--only to deny me, months later. Were they stalling? Why? Why did the rules keep changing? Why did my hair dresser get a temple divorce from a decent guy within 6 weeks? (Answer to that is that her father was personal friends with GBH.) Not only did I finally get answers, but I got such an out-pouring of empathy and compassion, that I cried! I had never felt that kind of love in the Mormon cult.
I am hooked on RFM! The opposing points of view have been crucial in opening up my brainwashed mind. Learning the Truth--words cannot express my gratitude to RFM.
Sorry for all the rants, but that has helped, too. My children and I are doing very well, and have learned, with the help of RFM, to adapt to living in Utah, among the Mormons.
I will forever be grateful to RFM and all of you.
Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 07/31/2012 03:03PM by forestpal.