Posted by:
summer
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Date: August 11, 2012 11:40AM
I would remove all electronics from his room at night (TV, computer, phone, etc.) Have him develop a consistent nightly routine -- perhaps a warm shower and some reading time before bed. Also make sure that he is getting the proper amount of sleep at night. A recent BYU study suggested that 7 hours is the optimal amount for 16-year olds in terms of school performance (other studies suggest 9 or more hours.)
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sleep-newzzz/201203/how-much-sleep-teensSome kids (and adults for that matter) have a particularly difficult time waking up in the morning. Consult your physician and keep trying different tactics to get your son moving toward independence. I would not be punitive about this; just keep trying until you find something that works. Sleeping with the shades up or the curtains open might help. Some people use alarm clocks with flashing lights. I believe that very insistently noisy alarm clocks are made as well. Your son is not the first person with this problem. If you consult online forums for people with this problem you can probably find additional ideas.
*Don't* let him be tardy to school under any circumstances (I am saying this as a teacher.) There would be legal consequences for you and it is depriving him of his education. Keep waking him up until you are able to come up with a solution.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 08/11/2012 11:42AM by summer.