Posted by:
forestpal
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Date: October 09, 2012 02:56PM
Here's how a normal conversation would go:
YOU: "Here I am dropping off my nieces at my brother's house. We had a good time with them. Here are their sweaters, though we didn't need them. It isn't going to rain until Friday, but the days are getting colder, now. Aren't the fall colors beautiful! The girls were telling me about your Halloween plans, bla-bla."
SIL: "Thank you for having them over to your house. They seem to have had a good time! They always ask to go over to Aunt Tupperwhere's house. It was fun for us to have some time together without the kids. We even watch the Presidential debates together--what did you think of the debates? How about those Utes? Have you seen the Avenger's movie? The girls like school, and they are taking piano lessons, and soccer...bla-bla."
YOU: "The nieces are growing and getting more mature, and interesting, every day, and we are looking forward to getting everyone together for Thanksgiving, and we need to make plans for that, and I have a new zucchini recipe, and there are so many interesting things to talk about--but I need to rush off, now."
SIL: "I have to get busy, too, but I will call you tomorrow, about Book Club or whatever." Thanks again for being such a good person, and for watching your nieces."
Well, you asked what "normal" is.
I went to lunch the other day, with some friends I had worked with for several years. We honestly didn't know what each other's religion was, because the subject simply had not come up. One lady mentioned that her church was having a big group yard sale, so the subject of her church came up. She said that she had just switched churches, after they moved, and they liked the new church better than the old one. Another lady said that she had also attended the same church, and she liked it, too, but that she had switched to another church for their youth program. Another lady said, "We just go whatever church is closest to our house, and has the most convenient meeting time." It is NORMAL for people to change religions, as their circumstances change. No one gasped. No one accused anyone. No one questioned anyone, and the conversation moved on.
I really enjoy the people I spend time with, these days!