Posted by:
forbiddencokedrinker
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Date: October 16, 2012 11:08PM
My ex, who is also foreign born, and does not really completely understand our culture, has always had a problem with dressing our son. She tends to buy him a lot of girly outfits, including pink frilly vests, and such. I am not worried about him being confused about his gender, he knows he is a boy, as I am about him getting picked on by other kids.
Just tonight she was asking me about a lady bug costume that she was thinking about dressing him in for Halloween. I had already purchased him a Buzz Lightyear outfit, and I politely informed her that she did not need to get him anything as it had been taken care of. I've tried explaining these little things to her, and I think from where she is from, they do actually dress toddlers like little girls. Which is fine where she is from, because it is socially acceptable and everyone does it.
My problem is that she has a very short temper, and whenever I try to discuss anything that may sound like a criticism, she becomes very angry. How do I deal with this?
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 10/16/2012 11:29PM by forbiddencokedrinker.