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fidget
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Date: November 10, 2012 09:11AM
He can't understand my need for RfM. I tried to explain that he wasn't effected by TSCC the same way that I was.
Even though he was YM pres and all that good stuff, he never truly believed it. He just went through the motions...
I on the other hand, tried so hard to be a TBM. But I never fit in. I couldn't make myself be like the other girls. I was never called for any sort of calling until I was married and inactive(they tried to call me for library. It was about two years ago). I think there was a push to get young inactives back, I was only 21.
I have no idea why I was never chosen for a YW calling. Maybe it's because I wasnt a snobby bitch like everybody else. Maybe it's because I had a habit of gathering the misfits under my wing and punching anyone who made them feel bad about themselves. The girls in my ward were horrible. They made some girls feel so bad about themselves that their parents moved. They chased at least ten girls and their families out of the neighborhood within two years.
I never wanted to be them, but I did try to be TBM. I tried so hard that it hurt. I tried so hard that the first time my boyfriend and I had sex all I could do after was cry from the guilt.
This is why I need RfM. I was more deeply effected than I'd like to admit. I'm not a fleeting jumpy person. I am the unmoveable rock that stands against the storm. It takes an earthquake to make me move....
Yes...I do believe that the church being an unfortunate part of my life, especially after my father's accident, had a major hurtful effect on me..
P.S. sorry I'm a bit down. This week has not been fun. I also forgot to add that you get 200 points for reading this one.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 11/10/2012 09:32AM by fidget.