Posted by:
rutabaga
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Date: January 08, 2013 12:04PM
In 2008 the mormon church reaffirmed its strong support of the California Marriage Protection Act. In the church meetings and strategy sessions leading up to election day, I became increasingly uncomfortable with the whole idea of denying a segment of the population the rights which I enjoyed.
Who am I to tell others how to live their life? What if the roles were reversed?
In 2008 I was still pretty much TBM, but with some pet peeves over the years, specifically the white-washing of church history. Its all spelled out on the Bio Board if you're interested.
Prop 8 was the last straw. I was done. Since then I have quit going to the temple, quit paying tithing, quit wearing garments, quit praying about anything.
Fast forward to 2012. I turned 60 last summer. Part of that was a period of self-examination. What am I going to do with whatever I have left?
I gave myself permission to be skeptical in the best sense.
I gave myself permission to make my own decisions with respect to the conduct of my life.
I gave myself permission to live my life independent of pleasing others. But DW's opinion still carries a lot of weight.
I gave myself permission to enjoy everything our world has to offer and quit worrying about events and things that might or might not happen in the future.
For a lot reasons, I'm going to keep going to church with DW. But now I consider myself "In the church, but not of it."
That phrase is so liberating!
My name is Kim Marks