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Date: January 15, 2013 01:52PM
http://www.npr.org/2013/01/14/169066917/retired-bishop-gene-robinson-on-being-gay-and-loving-godExcerpt:
I don't care whether any couple, gay or straight, has sexual intimacy or not. That's not my business. That's their business. But to require someone to give up this piece of one's life, which is so central to who each of us is as a human being, just seems cruel ...
I'm gay all the time. I'm gay right this minute, talking to you. It affects how I relate to the world, how I relate to people.
... this notion that it's okay to be gay as long as you don't act on it. First of all, I think that statement is disingenuous. The people who make that statement don't act at all as if it's okay to be gay ... taking them at their word, when do you become gay?
I laughingly will say to a more conservative audience, "Okay, if it's okay to be gay and not act on it, could two men live together? Could we sleep in the same bedroom if we slept in twin beds? Could we sleep in the same bed if we didn't touch each other? Could we touch each other as long as we only held hands?
At what point is it gay? ... It just doesn't make any sense. It comes out of what I think is a very male understanding of sexuality, which is that you are only being sexual when you are making love.
The fact of the matter is, we are sexual all the time, and this bifurcation of being gay versus acting just seems to me ludicrous at best and cruel at worst. ...