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Date: February 23, 2013 11:46PM
Maybe it's just my ward but it never ceases to amaze me that when I had a few questions about the church, the ward rushed to condemn me without giving me the benefit of the doubt or even asking what was going on. Having hung out on RfM since then, I realize it's standard operating procedure with a lot of Mormons. What I don't understand is WHY on earth they think the kids would want to still come to anything at church when they see how their parents are treated. And why do they think they can do an end run around the parents and invite the kids to activities they must realize the parents are against?
Bishop Buttercream dropped by our house personally today and in his best Relief Society Sister voice, invited the kids to come to a fireside tomorrow night about trek next summer. My kids NEVER go to church, never go to seminary, my son never goes to YM and my daughter only very occasionally goes to YW when they are doing a fun activity like beach volleyball. Why on EARTH would he think they would want to go on a pioneer trek? And why would he think that my kids would want to go to a church when they see how ward members treat their parents - like a naughty boy and girl who should be shunned or scolded until they come to heel.
I'll tell you why. This was a common technique we used in Primary - to try to activate the children and when the parents saw how the children benefitted from the church, in theory their hearts would be softened and they would return to activity. In reality now looking at it from the opposite side, it's a very threatening move to go after someone's children. Wouldn't it be smarter to build bridges with the parents and let the parents bring the children back? Rather than acting like sneaky child predators, I mean. How would they feel if I started giving their children links to this website and Mormon Think?
Mormons - unbelievably clueless since 1830.