Posted by:
magnite
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Date: April 04, 2013 04:19PM
Submitted my letter about 2 weeks ago, got the confirmation letter back saying that it would be refered to the SP.
I am the process of getting a divorce, tired of the wife being more devoted to the church than to me - and that isn't saying much.
My story goes; growing up in SLC, 3 of us best friends from Elem school to HS. By High School it was obvious that "Bob" was not like the other 2 of us. The 2 "good boys" went on to serve missions. After my mission and appropriate "temple marriage" in the 80's, Bob called and asked if we could talk. I went to his work at the gas station and sat inside while we talked about old times, going to the movies at mid-night, and so on. He asked how being married was, and I told him it was "fine". He then went on to tell that he was gay, and I replied that I had figured that out my then. He also told me he had AIDS...something that had not ever crossed my mind. Bob died a few years later, but I could not bring myself to go to his funeral...not sure why exactly, and wish I could have been there now.
When wife asked why I resigned, I told her about a few years ago when Prop 8 was up for vote in Cali. I was recently replaced as HPGL, when the "new guy" calls and asks if I can meet him at church to make phone calls to Cali residents and ask them to go out and vote against prop 8. I was stunned. I declined, giving some excuse I don't remember. But that began the "soul searching"...the questioning why a church that considers itself "Christian" would waste the time of members and resources of the church to restrict the freedom of other people. Especially when those resources could have been put to use to help instead of persecute. How does the LDS church expect gay people to "obstain" from being who they are...and live a lie....when "god" made everyone in his own image? And then I told her that I know she cannot be happy with someone who is not a member of the church, and that is a big reason for the divorce.
I had heard all the Anti-LDS propaganda before in my life, I served an "honorable" mission in Alabama. But all of that has changed. I am making my own decisions, based on what is right and fair.
I am not gay, but I am finally free, and I now allow others to believe and worship how, when, or what they may.