Posted by:
Ripley
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Date: April 05, 2013 09:17PM
Many years ago, I was chatting it up with a co-worker's boyfriend at a party. We were comparing our growing up experiences which were very similar. He had grown up in a small town in the south where most of the residents were Baptist. I grew up in a small town in Utah where most of the residents were... you guessed it! Mormon. At the time, I found the conversation enlightening because I was inactive and trying to deal with the judgmental and abusive behaviors I had experienced growing up. Until that point, I hadn't really thought that there could be other mainstream religions that were as messed up as the Mormons. In that moment, I thought... "maybe the church isn't so bad it's just human nature for a group of people to force everyone to conform". This was before I realized that many of the bad behaviors were institutional and actually taught by the church leadership past and present. I wish I had more information at the time, it would have saved me some further grief that resulted from giving the church a pass for a few more years.
Anyway, my point of this story is to ask about experiences others have had with different mainstream religions. Do they all employ some type of cultish behavior to keep their membership in line? How does the Mormon church compare? Is there some demarcation that differentiates a cult from a regular religion? I'm wondering how much blame for bad behavior goes to religion it general and how much the Mormon church is responsible for.