...what would you do?

I was repeatedly shocked by all the excommunications going on in the early 1990's, including that of a favorite BYU professor, D.M. Quinn.

I had been thinking for about 6 years, that there was a lot about this church that didn't make any sense.

Anyway, it was Conference weekend in October. I don't have much extended family in Mormonism, and I was making lots of meaningful non-Mormon connections, and I thought, "I cannot keep participating in this bullsh*t." I stayed home that weekend. I have stayed away from Mormonism ever since. I have not been to any Mormon church meetings in almost 20 years.

Suggestions on how to mark this special anniversary?

Think of something you've always wanted, maybe even a trip somewhere.

One thing I always enjoy is backpacking in remote areas, and I have not been in the mountains in a few years. So I am planning 8 days in the Ansel Adams Wilderness in August. What could be nicer at the height of the Summer, than going into the High Sierras?

Thanks everybody for the congratulations.

I don't have any suggestions, but wanted to say congratulations.

You were getting out as I was being sucked into this religion. I stayed over 20 years. Reading Quinn's writings a few years ago opened my eyes tremendously about the lds church. I really admire that man.

Whatever you do, enjoy!!!

I'd have an Extra large Baileys on ice!

Have your resigned? If not, maybe you could celebrate by removing your name as one of their official members.

Other than that, pour a nice drink, look in the mirror and congratulate yourself for taking care of you. If you add up 20 years of tithing you'll really feel good about it.

Find a TBM and tell them you want to talk to them about the only true church!!!! LOL