Posted by:
suzanne
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Date: July 09, 2013 05:54PM
My husbands Tbm parents are visiting us and his sister who lives in another town. My husband has not told them that we are out yet and was planning to do it while they were here. They will be here about ten days, so last Sunday I feigned a migraine to gt out of going to church. We assumed that his sister would have them the next weekend and that we would come clean right before they left.
His sister is also exmo and told her parents so about eleven years ago. For this and other reasons the relationship between her and my inlaws is very strained. She is constantly on my husbands case to just come clean and doesn't respect his right to choose when and where and how he does it. To force the issue, she decided to come up to our house next weekend instead of having the parents at her place. So next Sunday his parents will be here again and they will expect to go to church with us. Can't do two migraines in a row.... Also, it is a horrible time to come clean to them about being out of the church because it is going to to horrible and emotional and I don't want them to go through that while his exmo sister and her kids are here.
I promise, we are going to tell them soon. Just tell me how to get out of going this Sunday without causing them any additional heartache...