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Posted by: Delightsome White Boy ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 07:19PM

Honestly, who confesses for that. He had to wait almost a year to go back out. The church leaders tried to scare him straight saying that In Ted Bundy's final interview, he confessed that his sex addiction to PORN and masturbation was what changed who he was and made him into a serial killer of woman.

What a joke!!! I was always told that it was none of my business and that nobody knows anyone sent home and humiliated for doing what he did. Well... I was finally told what he got sent home for a couple of months ago.

Insane!!!!
I guess they can't unite to discriminate against gays, blacks, other churches and woman anymore. So they can unite around their new common enemy.... 99.9% of honest men.

Anyone else hear about this type of spiritual abuse to self-abusers?



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Posted by: stillburned ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 07:21PM

Regardless of how religious they are, there are two kinds of guys. Those of us who masterbate, and those who lie about it.

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Posted by: Loyalexmo ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 09:07PM

Women too!

Are there really any women who don't masturbate? Maybe, I'm not sure. I can't imagine.

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Posted by: darksided ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 07:26PM

yup, my bro was sent home for it. Never went back out.

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Posted by: earlyrm ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 07:52PM

The only reason Bundy said those things was because he was trying to manipulate the interviewer. He was trying to scapegoat pornography as the reason for his actions. He was saying that PORN caused his actions, instead of his desires causing the addiction to porn. Cart before the horse, as they say.

If he goes back out, TBMs will RAVE about him for being a story of redemption. If he leaves the church, people will shut up about him, and when his name comes up in conversation, they will feel disappointed.

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Posted by: Jason ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 08:30PM

People forget that Ted Bundy was a sociopath and an extremely manipulative man who never to the truth about anything. He was very good at "cold reading" people and telling them exactly what they wanted to hear.

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Posted by: heypal ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 09:50PM

Bundy, the great masturbater, put on a great bravado but he was scared shitless of dying. His porn 'confessions' were a desperate attempt to stay off the electric chair. He was prepared to dribble out what he thought his interviewers wanted to hear, ever so slowly, s l o w l y...all to keep breathing. In the end, he became a fried chicken choker who ran out of time and BS.

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Posted by: templeendumbed ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 08:02PM

This is unbelievable. What are they getting out of this. It appears arbitrary and capricious.

I'm guessing this kid does not come from a royalty or wealthy family.

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Posted by: Delightsome White Boy ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 08:06PM

He recently went back out. In his final interview with Stake President, the SP told him that he was an inspiration to all young men and that ever since he was sent home NOT ONE young man had confessed to spanking the monkey during that entire year!

Haha bull$hit. They all lied to not be humiliated and shamed in front of the entire stake.

99.99999% of men would be serial killers of woman if slapping the salami meant you'd kill woman. Right?

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Posted by: Delightsome White Boy ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 08:11PM

http://forum.newordermormon.org/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=31599&start=0

Apparently, Ted Bundy bs story is their latest faith inspiring story.

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Posted by: ontheDownLow ( )
Date: July 25, 2013 11:12AM

Yeah, that is what I was thinking, 99.9% of men would be serial killers in that case.

I don't correlate porn and masterbation with mutating ppl into serial killers anymore than I correlate coffee drinkers and serial killers.

Maybe we can blame it on the Jello?

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Posted by: Senoritalamanita ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 08:08PM

The more I read on RFM, the more I find out how truly reprehensible the LDS Church is, and how they can warp a young person's mind.

Imagine placing such a mormon guilt Trip on a 19 year old by insinuating that he is going to turn into a Ted Bundy style serial killer if he even thinks about masturbating.

And then to be sent home only to become a social outcast as a "failed" missionary.

It's so very cruel. The worst kind of spiritual abuse.

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Posted by: breedumyung ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 09:01PM

If Gawd didn't want me to masturbate, he woulda shortened my arms.

At least he won't let me give myself oral pleasure...

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Posted by: thingsithink ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 10:48PM

Lucky you.

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Posted by: slimchance ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 11:05PM

Obviously Gawd didn't want T-rex to be happy. Giving him those short little arms and all.

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Posted by: fidget ( )
Date: July 25, 2013 11:13AM

Why do you think T-Rex was so angry all the time?

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Posted by: Delightsome White Boy ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 09:49PM

Lol!!!
http://media.focusonthefamily.com/fotf/flv/fatal_addiction_bundy_interview/fa_full_dvd.flvrw


Crazy Mormon site pretending to be coalition of mainstream Christian churches.



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Posted by: Delightsome White Boy ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 10:03PM

Interesting Mormon royalty comment. You are absolutely correct. Non-tithe paying semi-active jackmo dd and TBM dm. Perhaps he had a target on him.
Any more specific and my anonymity will be compromised and it won't be delightsome.

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Posted by: ozpoof ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 09:51PM

What a champion!

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Posted by: upsidedown ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 10:20PM

Hope he has to properly lie to the face of anyone who is arrogant enough to ask him if he wacks off.

Stake President: "You may now return to your mission.... we are all very proud of you for telling us lies about how you don't masturbate. Now go out there and lie to potential converts about our doctrine so they will join the cult."

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Posted by: OhMyyy ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 10:38PM

The backside of MTC pillow cases are a logical place to wipe off on when done....... so think of that when you lie down on those MTC sheets.

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Posted by: earlyrm ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 10:58PM

My three roommates in the MTC turned the pillowcases into togas. You can only imagine the embarrassment when a security guard opened our door and asked us what was going on. So yes, I can testify that those pillowcases have had direct contact with male genitals (however, they were disposed of, because they cut arm and neck holes so they could wear it).

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Posted by: dydimus ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 10:55PM

This is sure stupidity on TSCC side; a man confesses and then shamed. STUPID, STUPID, STUPID!!! He literally could have brought hundreds to the church; and now "NON". Wow, they're totally insane and have no concept of reality.

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Posted by: Delightsome White Boy ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 11:33PM

They let him back out after weekly meetings with his Bishop for an entire year, asking him about the progress of his masturbation problem in one on one meetings.

When I was in the MTC we always shared our Wet Dream stained G's with eachother to prove we weren't beating the stick. You're either having nocturnal emissions, wacking or getting it drained by a doctor on the mission. You choose...
It's cumming out one way or another.



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Posted by: Delightsome White Boy ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 11:50PM

Does anybody else besides Darkside and I know others sent home from their mission for jerking off? RFM poll to see how prevalent this sort of sick and twisted spiritual abuse is.

My MP never asked me about it. When my Sr Companion with previous MP was asked. "Elder do you have a problem with masturbation." He answered "not at all, I have no problem with it whatsoever!" He kept his integrity and told the truth. He had no problem masturbating, it worked perfectly every time! :)



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Posted by: misterzelph ( )
Date: July 24, 2013 11:50PM

I wouldn't be surprised if it was discovered the MTC goes over all the rooms with luminal.

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Posted by: SLDrone ( )
Date: July 25, 2013 12:00AM

There might have been more to this story.

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Posted by: Delightsome White Boy ( )
Date: July 25, 2013 10:25AM

Sl drone. I doubt it. His girlfriend is in good standing with the church as a current BYU student.

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Posted by: captain ( )
Date: July 25, 2013 10:55AM

I knew lots of guys that admitted to masturbation in the MTC and they weren't sent home. I think there is more to the story.

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Posted by: quebec ( )
Date: July 25, 2013 11:13AM

It always depends on who is in charge.

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Posted by: mrtranquility ( )
Date: July 25, 2013 11:20AM

LDS, Inc. does not have an official policy on it other than to say it's bad and it has something to do with breaking the law of chastity. It's always been a bit murky.

Whether this is deliberate is hard to say. Contributing to the murkiness is the fact that 99% of males have a (ongoing) history with it. Their own Mormon-driven shame is always just below the surface. This causes the nice Mormon leaders to avoid the subject as much as possible and the sociopathic ones to needle every detail out of those unfortunate enough to confess it.

LDS, Inc.'s lack of specifics affords the opportunity for the wacky leaders to totally abuse its members with their masturbation obsession (like sending missionaries home early for example). I don't think many recover from the amount of guilt and shame piled on them in such circumstances.

The guilt works like a charm to keep members on the hook. When we "don't feel the spirit" or when the Mormon promises of "living the gospel" fail to deliver it's always our fault for "not living the commandments". LDS, Inc. takes a natural and benign behavior like masturbation and uses to create an internal struggle. Then they just sit back and collect the money.

And that folks is religion. First you sell the vulnerable the "problem" that they didn't even realize they had, and then you sell them the "solution". This "solution" also involves emptying the pockets into the coffers. What a scam!

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Posted by: fossilman ( )
Date: July 25, 2013 11:22AM

Yeah, I don't know. I was a full on TBM before leaving for my mission. And, hell yeah, I petted the one-eyed snake as often as the next guy. But after I got into the MTC, I stopped, thinking that maybe I should give it a break for a while.

After about two weeks in the MTC I wasn't learning the language as quickly as others (might have been because I was not a very good student), so I confessed to my MTC overlord that I'd masterbated a little bit before my mission. He made me write a letter to my bishop back at home and send it to him. I'm not sure that I got a reply, but that was the end of it.

I still didn't learn the language as well as some of the others, and not masterbating didn't last very long -- probably only a couple months after I got to Japan.

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Posted by: Lydia ( )
Date: July 25, 2013 11:54AM

I feel that I need to say this as every time a read it a scream inside. Masturbation is NOT A PROBLEM!! Do not screw up these 'kids' by making them have SO MUCH guilt.
And for the record - I am pretty sure it does NOT determine your sexual preferences either!!
Okay, and breath. Lydia

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