Posted by:
ExMormonRon
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Date: March 15, 2011 12:42PM
..I guess. Over the years we've read posts by our friends here that bring us to the brink of tears. Loneliness, isolation, family rejection...very poignant.
I never felt any of that. Other than the relative quiet I experienced during my divorce (only one of three sons remained with me), my leaving the church was relatively painless. I'd been in for about 22 years, bishoprics, high counselor, stake mission leader, primary teacher and everything in between.
I feel very fortunate in this. I proclaimed apostasy, told the Bishop to have me ex'd, happened in about 3 weeks, got my "your ex'd" letter and never heard a peep from anyone (except the Bishop, with whom I am, to this day, still good friends). No missionaries looking me up (tried to come get my son though), no visits from HT's, bishopric, stake reps... nothing. I felt no pangs of regret whatsoever. I was GONE, gone.
Although I beat myself up for many years for falling into the trap and believing it all, hook, line and sinker, my travails in leaving the morg have been de minimis.
I feel for all of you that have such a hard time, and I apologize for my flip attitude that slips out frequently. I often laugh at things I don't understand. That's just me. I have no concept of having to post as "anon" or something akin to it. I rail on the church at will with my name right out in front of it. My ex quit trying to get me to come back years ago and we're now, for the last 5 years or so, becoming more and more civil, if not friendly, with one another.
To be sure, I testify that the church is a joke. It is founded upon bullshit and changes colors like a chameleon to suit its own devices. The Mormon god is NOT the same yesterday, today and forever as I was taught. Joseph Smith was a snake oil salesman with a penchant for schtupping any skirt that he fancied. Those old men in SLC are the board of directors of a corporation parading around like a church. GA's telling us to be pickles is a strong clue that those men are either 1) robotic idiots; or 2) smooth talking shysters. Tithing funds are NOT used in the greater part to help those less fortunate. It is used for profiteering, mall building, hunting reserve purchases, and the building up of the kingdom of the old dudes in SLC.
Love ya'll, side with most of you, sympathize with all of you but empathize with only a few.
Just sayin'...
ron