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caffiend
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Date: July 30, 2013 12:10AM
Glo, I'm very on-board with your remarks. My only departure is saying, "on average, two years..." I would say this is very, very individual and varies greatly.
There are people who go overboard on the romantic relationship and have difficulty adjusting to the less intense, and occasionally difficult, periods in a permanent relationship. Such people may be love addicts, who paradoxically are usually involved with love avoidants. It's counter-intuitive, certainly, but there is more merit to this scenario than you would first think.
If a person (most often, female) has a tendency to get overly involved in unworkable relationships, then Pia Meloddy's "Facing Love Addiction" may be very helpful.
http://www.amazon.com/Facing-Love-Addiction-Giving-Yourself/dp/0062506048/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1375157254&sr=1-1&keywords=facing+love+addictionThere are other good titles and programs, but I'd start with this one. I found it quite insightful.