Posted by:
Cheryl
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Date: August 14, 2013 08:58AM
I think many new posters might feel a little shy or nervous about posting since they often start their posts with apologies for length, wordiness, possible problems with grammar, spelling, posting on subjects already covered, or "posting in the wrong place."
I'm hoping to set your minds at ease, new posters. We at RfM are not usually critical of new posters based on the above reasons.
In the past I've made all of those mistakes. Detractors were occasionally highly critical of me but I'd have to say it's *they* who have problems.
The very biggest and most recurring criticism I've had has been being "too negative" about the mormon church. As if that's a problem. LOL!
I'm letting you newbies know that if someone is rude or overly negative toward you here and there, you'll survive. No need to feel sad or run away.
Detractors might have their own issues or might have exaggerated or misread your post. They might be way off and miss the point completely or they might just be testing their own muscle. What they say could have more to do with them than you.
I hope you feel welcome and I hope you won't be easily discouraged. Pull up an easy chair and enjoy the interaction and join in as you feel ready and willing.
Good luck.