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Utah County Mom
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Date: October 25, 2013 10:45AM
My daughter is in 10th grade in a Utah County high school. Last night she related how she and another non-Mormon friend (both these girls are not sexually active and are still virgins) were talking to two girls who are Mormon.
In the same conversation, the two Mormon girls talked about their sexual exploits (one of these girls keeps a list--supposedly--of boys she's had sex with) and their activities in the Mormon church. So in one breath, one girl said she'd like to try a three-some sex adventure and that she's active in her ward's YW program.
My daughter and the other non-Mormon girl were speechless (my girl is seldom speechless by the way).
I said, "If this comes up again, you should ask you friends which is the real person--the girl who is sexually active or the girl who goes to church and pretends to be chaste?"
My daughter of course saw the hypocrisy and the double-life going on. She isn't into casual sex. We then had a tough conversation ourselves. She said she would probably become sexually active by her senior year of high school if she's with a steady boyfriend that she loves and trusts.
I told her I was uncomfortable with that idea because it's new territory for me--I was a virgin until I was in my early 30s and married. (I was a devout Mormon at the time.) But I said when that day does come, you come to your mother and we'll figure out what birth control is best. She promised.
I think these clueless LDS parents would be stunned at the double lives their teens live. What screwed up lives that will lead to later on. Glad my daughter is free of that.