Posted by:
freckles
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Date: December 08, 2013 06:18PM
We recently found out a family member was abusing their spouse. The spouse made it very public I guess after a long period of keeping quiet. The couple's bishop found out and met with them that day. He saw the bruises and the couple admitted that yes this was indeed happening. He decided that a free babysitter and a dinner gift card out would help them mend their relationship. Now according to their state laws, any adult who knows of abuse between a married couple( apparently unmarried doesn't matter) Is required to inform law enforcement of family services. When we found out the bishop didn't, we had to call. Now we have family members very upset with us and are not speaking to us. Another family member bailed the abusive spouse out of jail without any thought to putting the spouse or children in danger. So we contacted the bishop who we called out on not only not following the law but also not following TSCC policy and calling the hotline that would have helped him know the law. He also chose his words very carefully on where he did not see bruises. funny the police saw them not but a few hours later and took pictures. I hate the tscc and some really stupid family members that can't seem to use their brains. PLEASE someone tell me how on earth anyone thought dinner and a babysitter would fix this? Am I crazy? She had bruises from the neck up. How do you NOT call the police? How do people just stand aside, sweep it under the rug and continue to watch people they care about get hurt over and over? The spouse that was getting beat up is no longer speaking to me... fine. At least I know I tried to protect them. I care about them and I hope one day they see that I did this out of love. Not to hurt them.