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Date: December 27, 2013 04:20PM
I sitting home, bored because I have a stomach flu, cruising my friends' FB pages. A friend recently had a daughter get married, in Utah, at the ripe old age of 19 and posted more wedding photos a few days ago. Looking at the photos, it seemed like the grandparent, both sets life-long, small town, very believing Utah Mormons looked like the meanest, grumpiest people I've ever seen. It made me think of other TBM Mormons I know in the over-70 age group and with rare exceptions, they are not kind, loving, gentle, accepting people. They are hard-core, follow-the-rules-or-die Mormons and look just as tough and unforgiving. The nice Mormons I know in this age group are all the ones with inactive children, a laid back approach to church and a people-first attitude toward life. This goes for people my age too - the 40-something crowd. It seems like the nicer Mormons are the less-obedient Mormons. The only three women in the ward I can say I actually like are the one who is active now with her second husband, but had one out of wedlock kid with her first before she married him and had a second kid. And the one who didn't convert til she was 20 and has a full family of non-Mormons she hangs out with on a regular basis. And the young mom who, with her husband, were real partiers til they had kids and got active.
Yet the ones who led stellar, exemplary lives and are held up as a standard of obedience in the ward have all been snotty, judgmental and outright nasty - unless assigned to be nice. I wouldn't be friends with any of them - I much prefer those who take the church less seriously. Honestly, they talk about the fruits of Mormonism all they want but if the more you partake of the fruit, the less admirable you seem, then there is something wrong with those fruits.