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Date: March 17, 2011 08:38AM
My TBM FIL came by the house this evening.
It's always a pleasure... <insert extreme sarcasm warning here>
My wife is looking to go back to work and has talked to FIL about it.
He came by today to tell me (DW wasn't here) some advice he wanted me to give her when she came home. It was *REALLY* important. *snort* Usually its self-serving and time wasting.
Nothing new there.
A little background, when TBM FIL gets an idea he immediately comes over to the house, bangs on the door until he gets in and demands my sole attention until he has made his point.
There is no care for your ,schedulue and what you are doing. This is extremely annoying but I've learned to deal with it by just doing my chores, forcing him to yell or follow me (LOL) around.
Anyway, today's advice was that DW could get a job work for the local cemetery that is looking for plot and casket salepeople. WTF?? (Not only isn't this her career field *nursing* it pays bupkiss) Besides, there are tons of jobs in her career field.
But before I can tell him this, he blurts out that he prayed and got the answer that she will never get a job until we come back to church as a family and that her mother (died '97) was extremely upset at her for leaving the TSSC. You see, he talks to mother when he goes to the temple each month. (And his monthly visit was just last week)
BTW, my wife is looking for a certain type of employment opportunity (ER surgical charge nurse) and isn't in any real hurry. She's doing this mainly because she wants to get out of the house and get her doctorate which I'm encouraging her to do cause its good for her and the kids are of the age she can and is looking for a specific opportunity, hours and work enviornment. FIL obviously hasn't been listening to her--he's only listening to what he wants to hear and twisting it.
Soooo-if she doesn't get a job--it's because she's not going to church! Yeah, right. How does that work, exactly?
It just burns my butt how its all church all the time. And how prayers are so sacrosanct.
This whole argument of his is a classic circle jerk.