Posted by:
Garrett Schwanke
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Date: January 16, 2014 04:14PM
trolley4,
In short: I was open and honest from the get go, so that helped acclimate her to it very slowly. My own process was a slow evolution over a couple of years or so--this gave her plenty of time. Eventually she started to do her own research. I understand that this isn't your situation.
My point is (and one piece of advice): don't let fly all at once. But of course you know your wife better than we do.
I would recommend reading Peter Boghossian's book "A Manual for Creating Atheists"--the emphasis is on critical thinking skills etc. I think if you can help her digest those concepts piece by piece you can help her have a sufficiently open mind to hear you out. I'm not advocating manipulation etc., merely pointing you in the direction of epistemology first, specific Church problems etc. second.
His book is available as a Kindle and audible, too:
http://www.amazon.com/Manual-Creating-Atheists-Peter-Boghossian/dp/1939578094/ref=la_B00CXT0V0K_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1384386425&sr=1-1Good luck. I have enormous empathy for your situation.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 01/16/2014 06:12PM by Susan I/S.