Posted by:
anonthistime
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Date: January 29, 2014 12:47PM
TBM family & friends have been shunning us since we learned the truth & left TSCC 2 years ago. We tried our best to maintain contact & relationships with these people but due to their behavior when we are with them we have decided to stop trying. DH's parents have been the worse out of everyone. When we do, rarely, see them FIL acts angry, ignores us & won't be in the same room as our family. MIL tries to pretend like everything is fine but she basically ignores us too, but is polite to our face. DH has tried to talk with them about the situation & work it out but MIL pretends like she has no idea what he is talking about & denies ALL of their behavior towards us. Other family members are having the same response to us as well but just not as severely.
I just don't get it. Why can't they at least own it? why pretend like they aren't treating us differently? Why can't they have a mature, adult conversation about the situation? I'm understanding that this may be difficult for them; its hard for us too. I'm just so frustrated. I'm to the point where I think this is probably the end of any relationship with them.
Any advice or input on this would be greatly appreciated?