Posted by:
anon in mo land
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Date: February 16, 2014 11:40AM
I am in considerable emotional pain right now and just wanted to write a few lines, it may help ease the hurt I feel. I left the church a few years ago and have since been subjected to a barrage of emotional abuse from my dear and "loving" family. They have managed to marginilize me, they have told themselves that I am either mentally sick or guilty of hidden sin and they tell me this to my face. While I don't conform to their expectations they will continue to shun me and do things to hurt me but I am what I am and I won't be returning to their fantasy land again. I see them or hear of them getting together and I wish I could be part of their life. I love them very much and this is the source of my pain, it hurts so much to be rejected and sidelined by the people I love the most in this world.
I feel very alone and don't know what to do to fix this, I am also in deep depression, my life is almost paralyzed with pain. I wish I could find some release or solution but it just keeps on hurting and I can't cope much anymore, I have sought counselling but it doesn't seem to help. What can replace the relationship of those I love? Do I have to deaden the love I have for them to stop the pain? I think about disappearing from their lives at times, perhaps I am being selfish by staying on the scene, perhaps they would be happier if I removed myself completely? But again I do love them so much, what do I do? Am I a fool for putting up with this?
There's no easy answer. I have to try to hang on, my family is a commitment of love. Where I live it's almost four in the morning and I have been up, unable to sleep since 1am and this goes on almost every night.
I am not sorry I left Mormonism, it's a cult. I hate what it has done to us.