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Knight in Waiting
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Date: March 10, 2014 01:18AM
I'm really scared, anxious, overwhelmed, and a whole slew of other emotions.
Here's a little background:
I cancelled going on a mission last month, so as of a few weeks I ago I have been on a job hunt until school starts later this year in the Fall. I'll be saving up for a car as one of my first shorter-term goals.
In an attempt to help me out, my mom contacted my aunt (her sister-in-law) who is an assistant manager for multiple 76 Gas Stations and reached out to her to get me a job. Needless to say, she guaranteed me a job (unbeknownst to me prior to arriving for an informal interview). I was never really asked if I wanted to work there or anything, but I decided that to see what it had to offer since I need the money, experience, etc.
Well, I've had three days of training this last week and found that while working with others it's a pretty straightforward and easy job since I have help all around me. Working the register is easy.
My major gripe is that all of my shifts will be at a kiosk-type station where I'll be working by myself (2 graveyard shifts a week, with 1 morning shift, and 1 evening) in a city that's...shady, to say the least. The city itself is 30-40 minutes away and I need to rely on other modes of transportation since I lack my own vehicle and license. Plus, both of my parents cars are, as of today, defunct.
As some of you might remember, I tend to have truly terrible anxiety. The anxiety itself is exacerbated in situations where I'm overwhelmed with tasks with no written instructions to keep track of what I need to do (I'm expected to just memorize all of the procedures for reports, filling propane tanks, and more in just 4 days of training). Well, my anxiety makes me forgetful since I stress over what I need to be doing. The paradox itself is maddening enough.
Well, my first official day where I'll be working alone is this Thursday, the day before the profit goes to the UK. I'm truly terrified. On top of that, I'm scared of the ramifications of just up and leaving the job. Don't I need to put in my two weeks or something anyways? I'm not sure...
And then there's the consequences of being made out to be even more of an ingrate to my mom AND my aunt. I have yet to find any other jobs nearer to home, and I need to start saving up money for a car soon...
I just don't know what to do. My life feels so heavy and I'm only 18! I'm pretty sure any normal 18 year old wouldn't feel quite so mentally taxed. I just kinda wish I would lie down, go to sleep, and then just..poof, y'know? That's how everything feels right now and has felt for the past month. Lie down and poof.
All of my pathetic rambling aside, what do you recommend I do, given my situation? If I need to specify some more please let me know, and I'll try to get back to you as soon as possible.
What would you do in my shoes? How would you deal with the consequences? I simply don't know... everything is so daunting.
Thank you for all of your time and consideration. You have all helped me out so much with your wise words in only a month of my participation on the board. Thank you.