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Memes, circa 2000
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Date: November 09, 2013 09:03PM
This whole McNeill murder has me really creeped out. Growing up as a girl in the Mormon church I knew I had no agency. My father owned me. He beat me like he owned me, he molested me as his property.
Then I got married. I was passed on to the trust of my husband. He owned me. My husban decided when we would have sex and how we would have sex. He decided that I would not be going to college, he decided on the names of our children, he decided how far I could drive every day, if I could work (I could not) at how much money I was allowed to spend.
When I told him I was leaving him he said he was going to kill me. I was his property and that is what a "real man" does with his own property. His "real man" obsession and attitude came from his messed up perspective of manhood he learned within Mormon church. I lived in fear for years waiting for him to fulfill his promise to bury me.
It's time the Mormons start encorporating more that respect for one's wife and daughters in their Sunday school lessons. These men need to be taught that they are completely equal human beings with free agency and the use of the words "heeding to councel" should be abololished. Slavery may be illegal but women in the most restrictive sects of the Mormon church are still slaves.
http://usnews.nbcnews.com/_news/2013/11/09/21381212-utah-doctor-martin-macneill-guilty-of-killing-wife-leaving-her-in-tub?lite