Posted by:
NeverLookedBack
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Date: November 15, 2013 09:28AM
Hello to all you regular posters here - long time lurker never posted till today.
So I've a typical overly large TBM family which one of my TBM sisters is about ten years my senior. When I was just out of high school and floundering as to how to get some semblance of a life going she was very kind allowing me to live with her family for a few years. She also did her best to remain supportive of me through the years as I have moved on. The problem is that she remains TBM and over the years it has become increasingly difficult to maintain a relationship with her as it is pretty much impossible for me to be my authentic self without offending her deeply. I've been living far outside of the Moridor for years now and we really have little in common.
Anyway yesterday TBM sister's DD called to tell me she's putting together a video montage of the whole talking (I'm pretty sure she means praising and eulogizing) about her mom for a birthday present and wants my contribution. I really have a strong dislike for things like this even as family history biographies (actual self-published books) and other projects have popped up regularly. I’m uncomfortable doing this but feel as if I have no choice since I don’t want my sister to think that I don’t appreciate or care for her and anyway the ‘whole family’ is doing it. Ugg.