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Date: June 12, 2014 02:01PM
I met my husband through church and we got married years later after re-meeting. During those years apart I became an exmo (nonbeliever) and my husband went inactive (still believes). My famliy is still all TBMs and he has many TBM friends.
Long story short I mentioned a child mormon I saw and he made a comment about her and I asked him to elaborate and he said he couldn't because he knew through confidential mormon ways and it set a fuse off in me.
We had a little argument about it and he hasn't dared to make any off handed comments again. I hardly even know this little girl and could less about knowing some gossip about her. It irkes me that we put so much emphasis on honestly and trust in our relationship and he has a "get out of jail free" card.
Anyway, that was a few months ago and I haven't thought about it again until today really. I'm sure it also just has to do with my thinking his justification is stupid because TSCC is stupid and bishop interviews are ridiculous.
In the moment it just made more sense to tell me something about a stranger instead of making it some big secret deal since he brought up the info to begin with and then, in the future, he just not mention things he knows about people and doesn't morally want to tell me. Instead it started a fight and thinking back on it bugs me.
Anyone else that can relate?