Posted by:
abcdomg
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Date: June 17, 2014 12:42AM
Lucy, if you read this, people on this board have very good intentions in responding to you, but not everyone understands what it means to be raped or the best advice to give to a survivor. If you have not tried talking to a rape crisis hotline yet, I would strongly recommend doing so. There is a large network of people out there who are knowledgeable about what you have gone through and may be able to help you work out how to deal with the rapist still being in your community and a part of your life.
Please, please do not feel like you "have to" do anything. You do not. Please do not feel afraid that it will be your "fault" if this boy goes on to hurt someone else. His actions are not your responsibility and will never be your responsibility. What matters is that you take care of yourself, that you feel safe, and that you have people to reach out to who can guide you through what you are going through.
I recommend
https://www.rainn.org/get-help/national-sexual-assault-hotline, which is supported by many people I know, including young adult authors who have written about the sexual assault and rape of teenage girls (one example being Laurie Halse Anderson). Take care of yourself. That is the biggest priority right now. YOU are the biggest priority, not the rapist, not your family, and definitely not your ward.