Posted by:
sadie711
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Date: July 29, 2014 11:38PM
Before I started my undergrad (you-know-where), everyone was telling me I'd gain a greater testimony and the "Church will be even more true than before." Right...so I went there and my first two years there were an ok experience. You know, all the good RM's , the religion classes were fun, no drinking parties at the apt complex...My junior year I realized one thing...MAN I AM SO UNHAPPY and I don't know why. The only thing I heard was "pray more, turn to the Lord, blablabla..." I started hating the entire you-know-what school and all the RM's, who were good RM's only when they bore their mostly fake and made up testimonies, religion classes got scary and I realized I would have to be beyond perfect to made it to the celestial kingdom and playing UNO is fun, but I was really sad, when my non-member friends went to LV to drink and have fun. My boyfriend was telling me that they didn't know the true happiness and fun....oh, they darn knew it! They had more fun then me. Anyway, there are couple of things I've always questioned...
1) Why every little thing is answered something like "Only God knows, we have to trust Him, follow your Lord."
2)Why every sacrament meeting seems like a guilt trip? Why do I always feel like I am NOT a good person?
3) Why is there no diversity in the Church?
4) Why do I feel like every fun thing is banned in the Church?
5) And most importantly....why all the anti-mormon websites makes much more sense than TBoM?
Ha...
But there are two things.... I go to a church school and leaving the Church now would mean I wouldn't not be able to graduate. And to be honest....it is a good school. Second, my boyfriend is Mormon and I love him beyond anything. And that sucks...There is the battle. I want to be happy, but I also love him. I want to graduate, but don't want to be dishonest and "love" the Church.
But I can definitely say..."My name is Sadie and I am ExMormon." The Church doesn't make me happy and I think Joseph Smith was pretty wrong when he claimed this Church to be the only true one.