Posted by:
Sherry L. Dogdew
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Date: August 04, 2014 08:51AM
My 25-year old daughter is scheduled to get married in the Boise temple in about a week. She is not totally TBM but the guy she is marrying is an RM, so that explains the temple thing.
At any rate, she goes to the bishop to get her temple recommend whereupon he inquires as to her "worthiness." She honestly admits to some degree of fooling around but not to full-blown sex. As a result, he does not give her the recommend and states that she and her fiance will have to wait at least six months to get married.
The problem is that wedding announcements have gone out, the honeymoon has been paid for (non-refundable), arrangements have been made, etc.
So, the bride and groom have decided to get married civilly on the original date. This means that I can now attend, my husband can attend, her younger sister can attend, her gay brother can attend, her best friends can attend, etc. The wedding will now be a family experience -- the way it should be.
From my perspective, the bishop was too extreme in his judgment but it really turned out for the very best. I can't help but think that the Morg would disapprove of this bishop for essentially forcing an LDS couple to get married outside of the temple.
What say you?