Posted by:
icedtea
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Date: September 15, 2014 09:29PM
There are many of us on the board whose reveals have cost them marriages, family relationships, promotions, jobs, and many other opportunities. There are people who will tell your spouse to leave you if you don't believe any more -- often including that spouse's relatives, your bishop, neighbors, "friends," etc.
Don't assume your reveal will have no or few negative consequences. The opposite is probably more likely. In your case, OP, be very careful, since you have family members with depression/suicidal feelings. And, given that you're employed by your FIL, that's just another reason to be discreet.
What you DON'T want to do is come busting out of the closet while in a vulnerable position, especially with respect to money or career. If you get fired by your FIL, that's not going to look good when you go job-hunting.
If you really need/want to talk about your spiritual evolution, do it here, or maybe bring up one specific issue to carefully discuss with one family member. Sometimes, discretion is the better part of not only valor, but common sense. I know how awful it feels to smile and nod when you are thinking in your head, "This is utter bu!!$%^$," but at least you have the privacy of your thoughts, which no one can control, and us here at the board.