Posted by:
GetTheLedZepOut
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Date: October 05, 2014 11:48PM
What is it about the Morg that they have been able to strip from people their sense of social graces and reasonability?
I've had a belly full of idiots who haven't the sense to know it isn't OK to ring the doorbell on a Sunday evening unannounced. Yep, tonight was another. I knew it was coming. Surely a conf talk got someone wound up and their head spinning. One of the RS presidency has taken it upon herself to reactivate my sweet wife. I've told the HP GL I want to be left alone and surprisingly, he seems to get it.
Not this gal. She's been relentless for a few years now. Cookies, the monthly message left in the door, Christmas gifts, etc. Last weekend (hmmm end of the month) they knocked. We don't even answer any more. Then she texted my wife and asked if we wanted to go to dinner...their treat. Really? I suggested a text back saying it was OK to count her VT for the month and to f off. Of course, my SW is way too sensitive to resort to rude words.
What is astonishing is that they don't get it, even after so many messages and queues to be left alone. The only thing I can wrap my mind around is that perhaps they feel their divine calling to reactivate absolves them of normally accepted social graces. In the backs of their feeble minds, they imagine an apostate (me) blubbering at the pulpit and thanking them sticking it out and doing what it took to help bring me back to the fold.
I did notice, during a recent visit with my parents and brother, that the zealot TBMs really can't function outside the Morg framework. We don't see each other very often. Honestly, probably has more to do with the fact we have very little in common than with the distance that separates us. It was pathetically awkward what little they are able to talk about if the subject isn't the church. Over and over the conversation circled back to some church news or happening. I'd change the subject..back it would come, ending up in another goofy diatribe about some wonderful church doctrine or happening.
And during their one day visit, they just had to go to a session at the temple near our home.
After they left, I'll admit to being a bit dumbfounded to see, with fresh eyes, how utterly pathetic and sad it all is. And how the Morg has managed to be the gift that keeps on giving. Bad enough to be the family's lost soul "project", but worse yet their glassy-eyed devotion to the cult keeps them from allowing us to be loving family members with differing ideas.
Similar situations out there? Sadly, I'm guessing so.