Posted by:
ExMoBandB
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Date: October 15, 2014 01:07AM
Sadly, The Elderly are not as revered in America, as they are in--well--just about any other country I have visited!
America invented teen-agers, and saw that as a huge selling demographic. No one thinks about who's money they teens are spending.
Senior citizens have EARNED their health insurance. The Baby-boomer generation had a work ethic. They shouldered their adult responsibilities. Many of them were raised by parents and/or grandparents who had lived through the depression. That was a sobering experience, but it taught job-appreciation, and frugality. I have a hard time going along with the excesses in the up-coming generation. I went to my son's fancy house to a lavish party, and all their friends' cars were brand new, giant, gas-guzzling SUV's or ORV's or whatever you call them, for transporting 8 people over 3 feet of snow. The city plows the roads here, and my son's friends average 2 kids and a dog. My son and his wife drive Mercedes-es. Two? Teens and young adults like "concerts"--at $200+ each, and it isn't even music. And the pro sports games are expensive, too, especially if they fly to San Diego, San Francisco, and Seattle to see them, and stay in a nice hotel, and dine in expensive restaurants. My daughter and her husband go to New York City once a year, and all of my adult kids take their children to Disneyland once, sometimes twice a year. I guess they think their kids will all get scholarships to universities, or take out student loans, or something. I remember the "good old days" when parents saved for their children's college education. Honestly, I don't know any parents who are doing that. I do know some grandparents, including myself, who are.
The old people are the ones who are carrying the Nation! That's right!
I had a horrible nephew, who will rot in Hell. He pushed both his parents to sign a "do not resuscitate" document. They both died fairly young, at 62 and 64, within months of each other, from different causes. Each time, when their insurance ran out, my nephew took them out of the hospital and into a hospice, where they could not get the care they needed. One could not breathed, and gasped and choked for days, and all they did was strap him down. As for me--give me the breathing machine, and painkillers for a few extra days. Consider those extra days in intensive care as extra days at Disneyland. This same nephew stole his sister's inheritance, and attempted to steal my inheritance from my single brother. I sued and won, but now I wish I'd had the creep put in jail.
People need to know who to trust, and often old people can't trust their own children.
I would have dropped that golf buddy like a hot potato. WTG!
Why do we always think we need to be "useful to others?" Who defines what "being useful" is? The Mormon cult has its own definitions of this, of course. Once we fail to be of use to the cult, we are shunned, completely, regardless of age.
The Mormon cult made three final hits on my very active, faithful, lifetime TBM parents:
1. Go on a Senior couple mission; in fact, go on thee or four!
2. Sell your house to the LDS, (Beneficial Life), and let them put you on a reverse mortgage, so you have more cash for senior missions.
3. Prevent money squabbles among your children, prevent them from having to pay huge inheritance taxes, and leave your money to the Mormon cult.
4. Remember BYU in your will. The attractive couple who advertised this on KBYU were "friends" of my parents in their ward. When my father was dying, they dropped in, unexpectedly, well-groomed and shiny and smiling. I kept coming into the room and saying that it was time for Dad's medicine, that Dad needed to rest, and my Mother would agree with me, and stand up--but they did not leave until my father had written a very large check to BYU. We were just grateful he didn't change his will. He was quite weak and ill. No respect! I finally got hold of my brother, who was Dad's trustee, and he cancelled the check! LOL! I was surprised, because my brother was very TBM.
I think the Mormons are the very worst, when it comes to disrespecting the experience, knowledge, and accomplishments of older people. Yet, they near-worship those weird old geezers, halfway to the crypt, and cover up when they become brain-dead.