Posted by:
Greyfort
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Date: October 21, 2014 08:42PM
I would have to call it one of my last straws, but I definitely had one of those moments which really hit me hard and led to my choice to go inactive.
Actually two moments.
One was when I worked for the Church and that General Authority was telling us that if we pulled in a bad job review, then we'd be solely responsible for bringing down the scores of our entire office, our entire Region and maybe even the scores of the entire country.
It shocked me and totally clued me in to how the organization deliberately manipulated by instilling guilt and fear in its members. I was not impressed.
But I think it all started after 9-11. It suddenly hit me that Mormons didn't hold a monopoly on a powerful testimony. It shocked me that people were willing to kill themselves and others for their god.
It of course was a horrible thing to do, but the strength of their testimonies towards their own faith really struck me hard.
It led to me realizing that a Catholic, a Protestant, a Jew, a Muslim, a Hindu, a Jain, a Buddhist, etc., could sit and bear testimony to me, with tears in their eyes, of their witness towards the truth of their own faith. And they could do it as strongly and with as much conviction as any Mormon could; maybe even more so.
I don't know why it had never occurred to me before. Mormons really think that their testimonies hold much more conviction than those of other faiths.
I found myself saying out loud, in my church office, "Oh, how arrogant!" How arrogant are we to sit here and claim that we had the one and only truth to God? I felt embarrassed to have ever thought that we did. It was a humbling moment.
Oh, and I just thought of a third one. Some poor guy who looked like he was about to collapse at any moment wandered in. He said he had moved to the area, couldn't find a job and was really hungry. He couldn't take another step without food.
I didn't have any money with me, so I gave him the money that we'd collected from the pads and tampon dispenser. It was only about $5 in change, but he was grateful for it.
I felt really embarrassed when I had to explain to him that we weren't set up to help the public. He said, "Oh, I see. You only take care of your own, right?" I sheepishly said, "Yeah." I couldn't lie. I told him to go to the Salvation Army and he thanked me for that info.
It was just another one of those big eye-opening moments.