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Posted by: Agnes Broomhead ( )
Date: January 12, 2015 11:41AM

There are two young (look like early 20s) females, and they don't look like blood relatives; one is blonde and the other is probably Latina or Filipina-looking. The blonde one gives a backrub to the other.

Is this out of the ordinary?

Maybe they are adoptee-sisters. Otherwise, are TBMs creepy enough to do this to what we would consider mere friends? Nevermo girlfriends that are not lesbian wouldn't do this, would they?

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Posted by: deco ( )
Date: January 12, 2015 11:45AM

If this happening during sacrament meeting I am guessing that a lot of deacons and teachers are spending some time in the bathroom thinking about it.

So if you do not see these boys put on food safe gloves before breaking the bread, you may want to pass on the sacrament that day.

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Posted by: Agnes Broomhead ( )
Date: January 12, 2015 11:49AM

Yep.
I might as well add that this was a YSA ward.

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Posted by: darkshadow ( )
Date: January 12, 2015 04:09PM

LOL

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Posted by: abaddon ( )
Date: January 12, 2015 11:46AM

I know two, very heterosexual girls that I've seen give back rubs to each other and are not related and are not Mormon.

As I've said to many others (but for other odd criticisms): there is much that is wrong with Mormonism, including culture and practice. But this back rubbing you're talking about isn't one of them.

Now, if you're talking about the creepy way lots of Mormon men shake your hand while putting the other on your shoulder in a "friendly" squeeze and/or subtle massage? THAT is weird and I believe is mostly a Mormon thing.

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Posted by: michaelc1945 ( )
Date: January 12, 2015 11:46AM

Hey, who really cares? Plus, is their sexuality any of our business? If one is from a different culture that can explain differing behaviors other than the uptight American norm.

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Posted by: ultra ( )
Date: January 12, 2015 11:50AM

That's hot...

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Posted by: ificouldhietokolob ( )
Date: January 12, 2015 05:13PM

Wait, I think I saw this movie...

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Posted by: cludgie ( )
Date: January 12, 2015 12:07PM

They must be sister missionaries, right? Typical behavior of sister missionaries, like lice grooming and nit-picking.

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Posted by: laperla not loggedin ( )
Date: January 12, 2015 12:19PM

but then I live in California. You can rub my back any time.

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Posted by: Athena ( )
Date: January 12, 2015 12:24PM

More common with teenagers than 20-somethings, but completely normal. All the girls from my high school did this.

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Posted by: Belle ( )
Date: January 12, 2015 12:41PM

I think you need to grow in your own perspective. Message therapy is mainstream now and there are a lot of practicing amateurs.

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Posted by: axeldc ( )
Date: January 12, 2015 04:10PM

Women seem a lot freer to expression platonic affection than men.

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Posted by: snb ( )
Date: January 12, 2015 04:12PM

I think it is pretty normal for young folks to do this. Maybe this is more of a suburban culture thing than anything else.

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Posted by: Hmmm... ( )
Date: January 12, 2015 04:13PM


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Posted by: donbagley ( )
Date: January 12, 2015 05:23PM

And you're not paying to watch?

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Posted by: crathes ( )
Date: January 12, 2015 05:25PM

We used to play "who will conceive during church" while watching young married couples massage each other. Back, shoulder, who knows where else.

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