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randyj
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Date: December 11, 2014 10:21PM
One of my Mormon relatives "liked" this article on Facebook:
http://ldsmissionaries.com/8-powerful-reminders-for-missionaries-who-come-home-early/We frequently talk about this subject here, but it's fascinating to see a TBM write about it, and to confirm that it's a major church-wide problem. Be sure to read the comments from guys who came home early, like this one:
I came home early (only out for 6 months) because of extreme illness combined with unrighteous dominion of a church leader. I did nothing wrong. However, I was treated poorly by everyone along the way on my journey home. Family, friends, strangers, you name it. The LDS culture worships missionaries. Many women will not marry someone who is not a return missionary. Just because someone went on a mission does not mean they are obedient or a good person. The social pressure to go on a mission is some of the highest of anything in the church. If a young man chooses to not go on a mission, he may as well leave the church. I wasn’t sure if I wanted to go, so waited a few months after high school to attend a semester of college. I got more dirty looks and questions than I can count. I didn’t let this decide for me. I CHOSE to go. I earned the money for my mission, starting as a child. I didn’t go for my parents, a girlfriend or anyone else. I chose to go for me. I started getting sick immediately after getting out into the field and was having a tough time. Church leaders just kept calling me lazy and it wasn’t until 2 separate doctors confirmed I was ill, was the question of me being sick even addressed. This led to me being sent home “for psychological reasons”. No matter the reason for being sent home, you will always be blacklisted or thought of as inferior by many members of the church. I found no comfort in this article and found it extremely unhelpful. Optimism is not a cure for a church wide problem.