Posted by:
Elder Berry
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Date: February 02, 2015 06:09PM
I suspect so. Ugh! IT is so about the culture of church and not about just another family who love each other. Their love is Mormon love which is often judgmental and conditional. They can't love unconditionally. It is impossible for them.
When I was a baby this was Mormon love defined.
From 1971.
" I don’t recall much of her prayer, the tears and the joy and the sweetness, but I remember one thought: she thanked God for the unconditional love she had received. This life doesn’t give one very many chances to feel exultant and a little successful, but I felt wonderful that night, and thank God that she really believes and understands what she said. We cannot, my dear brethren, condition our love by a beard or beads or habits or strange viewpoints. There have to be standards and they must be enforced, but our love must be unconditional."
https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1971/10/love-unconditional?lang=engWhen I was the age Jesus was crucified this was Mormon love defined.
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Divine Love Is Also Conditional
While divine love can be called perfect, infinite, enduring, and universal, it cannot correctly be characterized as unconditional. The word does not appear in the scriptures. On the other hand, many verses affirm that the higher levels of love the Father and the Son feel for each of us—and certain divine blessings stemming from that love—are conditional. Before citing examples, it is well to recognize various forms of conditional expression in the scriptures."
https://www.lds.org/ensign/2003/02/divine-love?lang=engClosing on middle age Mormon love defined.
From 2009
"Some seem to value God’s love because of their hope that His love is so great and so unconditional that it will mercifully excuse them from obeying His laws. In contrast, those who understand God’s plan for His children know that God’s laws are invariable, which is another great evidence of His love for His children. Mercy cannot rob justice, 2 and those who obtain mercy are “they who have kept the covenant and observed the commandment” (D&C 54:6)."
https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2009/10/love-and-law?lang=engIt went completely from the pulpit saying we should have unconditional love to God's love is conditional to God's laws are evidence of God's love and only the obedient to God escape the evidence of God's love.
Welcome back God of the Old Testament!
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 02/02/2015 06:10PM by Elder Berry.