Posted by:
presleynfactsrock
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Date: February 11, 2015 04:04AM
Never thought about these two words in this way, and now I won't forget, and I won't forget that it comes with a third frightening threatning word, "or". Excellent thread.
I am sorry for those of you who posted that you or members of your family were abused, and my heart goes out to each of you. I have been there, also, and then again with a child, and the terror and guilt and shame that this action brings, whatever form of abuse it came in, is so devastating, so hurtful and so life altering.
One of the forms of abuse that I endured was verbal and emotional abuse from my home life. It virtually rendered me speechless in so many ways because as children we were considered invisible and very much in the way.
To an extent, I think verbal abuse goes on in Mormonism; of course, especially in the case of the female gender. Men, are certainly on a different rung of the ladder, but to be talked to and about with much respect and reverence, they must perform and rise in the priesthood circus and in the positions they serve. Women must be silent in many areas, the silenter the better, such as not aspiring to bless or baptize your child or help make a decision as to who will serve as a bishop.
Don't tell....or....you will go to hell. When I attempted to talk to a family member, this is what I got. These words were not spoken literally, but indirectly. I was told I was not telling the truth. However, this literally happens in the Church-----think, first of all, Joseph Smith threatening Emma with obey polygamy or die, written for all to see in the Doctrine and Covenants, and abusive bishops making threats, and TBM abusive fathers making threats so that you will never tell.