Mormon Observer Wrote:
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> This made me think of how we need to defend our
> space, especially in the church...Men and
> women...to know what to say about behavior and how
> to say it.
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> (I’m an A & E nurse. We’re not allowed our
> phones on us: they’re to be kept in our lockers.
> A call comes into hospital reception on a private
> line for me.)
>
> Phone: “this is from . There’s been an
> incident involving . We need you to come in.”
>
> Me: “Is she ill or injured? Can it wait until my
> shift is over in two hours?”
>
> Phone: “ has struck another pupil. We’ve been
> trying to call you for 45 minutes. It really is
> very serious.”
>
> (I go to the school and am ushered into the
> head’s office. I see my daughter, her head of
> year, a male teacher, the headmaster, a boy with
> blood around his nose and a red face, and his
> parents.)
>
> Head: “Mrs. , how kind of you to FINALLY join
> us!”
>
> Me: “Yeah, things get busy in the A & E. I’ve
> spent the last hour administering over 40 stitches
> to a seven-year-old who was beaten by his mother
> with a metal ladle and then I had to deal with the
> police regarding the matter. Sorry for the
> inconvenience.”
>
> (After watching him try to not act embarrassed, he
> tells me what has happened. The boy had twanged my
> daughter’s bra and she had punched him in the
> face twice. I got the impression they were more
> angry with my daughter than the boy.)
>
> Me: “Oh, And you want to know if I’m going to
> press charges against him for sexually assaulting
> my daughter and against the school for allowing
> him to do it?”
>
> (They got all jittery when I mentioned sexual
> assault and stared speaking at once.)
>
> Teacher: “I don’t think it was that
> serious.”
>
> Head of Year: “Let’s not over-react.”
>
> Headmaster: “I think you’re missing the
> point.”
>
> (The boy’s mother then starts crying. I turn to
> my daughter to find out what happened.)
>
> Daughter: “He kept ping my bra. I asked him to
> stop but he didn’t, so I told Mr. . He told me
> to ‘ignore it.’ did it again and undid my bra
> so I hit him. Then he stopped.”
>
> ( I turn to the teacher.)
>
> Me: “you let him do this? Why didn’t you stop
> him? Come over here and let me touch the front of
> your trousers.”
>
> Teacher: “What? No!”
>
> Me: “Does that seem inappropriate to you? Why
> don’t you go and pull on Mrs. ’s bra right
> now. See how fun it is for her. Or on that boy’s
> mum’s bra. Or mine. You think just because
> they’re kids it’s fun?”
>
> Head: “Mrs. . With all due respect, still beat
> another child.”
>
> Me: “No. She defended herself against a sexual
> attack from another pupil. Look at them; he’s
> nearly 6 feet and 11 or 12 stone. She’s 5 feet
> and 6 stone. He’s a foot taller than her and
> twice as heavy. How many times should she have let
> him touch her? If the person who was supposed to
> help and protect her in a classroom couldn’t be
> bothered what should she have done? He pulled her
> bra so hard it came undone.”
>
> (The boys’ mum is still crying and his dad looks
> both angry and embarrassed. The teacher won’t
> make eye contact with me. I look at the
> headmaster.)
>
> Me” “I’m taking her home. I think the boy
> has learnt his lesson. And I hope nothing like
> this ever happens again, not only to , but to any
> other girl at this school. You wouldn’t let him
> do it to a member of staff so what makes you think
> he can do it to a girl of 15 is beyond me. I will
> be reporting this to the governors. And if you
> __” turning to the boy “___EVER touch my
> daughter again I WILL have you arrested for sexual
> assault. Do you understand me?”
>
> (I was so angry I gathered my daughter’s things
> and left. I reported it to the Board of Governors,
> several of whom I know from Church (it’s a
> Catholic school), and was assured it would be
> strongly dealt with. I also reported it to OFSTED
> (government-run school monitoring) and they were
> equally as horrified and assured me they would
> contact the school. My daughter was put into a
> different class for that subject, away from the
> teacher and the boy.)
True or not...'Mum' did and said all the right things.