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Breeze
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Date: March 16, 2015 04:49AM
I look forward to spring, like most people do, but my "reverse SAD" seems to be more of a physical response. I don't like heat, either, and it drains my energy. The days seem too long. There's too much noise, and it continues on until the sun goes down, later and later. Neighbors are always remodeling their houses, and they hammer and saw in the early morning and the evening, when it is cool. People run their mowers, leaf blowers, and chain saws. Bored teen-agers rev their motors, and out-of-school kids shout in the streets. Some of us depend on the quiet, dark, cool evening hours to wind down from a stressful day--and now that will all be taken away from us.
I don't like daylight saving time. Most people need two weeks to adjust to the new time, whether it is in the spring or fall.
I like your idea about taking a vacation! Enjoy!
I can't afford anything fancy or exotic, but it does help to at least plan the details of Easter, up-coming birthdays, our traditional St. Patrick's Day celebration, etc. Fourth of July is actually one of my favorite days.
I have had some tragedies and losses in my life, and I think the contrast of the sunshine makes my inner shadows feel darker--know what I mean? Everyone else's exuberant, heightened mood makes mine seem gloomy. In the winter and fall months, I feel more evened-out, and in tune with my surroundings. I like stability, and I don't like drama.
That reverse SAD thread had some good practical advice in it, for example, to close your blinds and darken your room and crank up the AC, a couple of hours before going to bed at night. Wear an eyeshade and earplugs, to block out the world. Meditate. Don't be a workaholic. Use a full-spectrum light in the winter mornings. Avoid alcohol, because it's a depressant. Exercise, but not after 7:00 at night. I did have a vitamin D deficiency, plus was not getting enough sleep, and correcting all that has made me feel much better.
I sympathize with exldsdudeinslc. Losing my spouse was one of the negatives I've had to deal with. Maybe he would have felt even worse, if he hadn't played tennis--who knows. But, it's the contrast. I feel the very saddest when I'm around happy couples and their children. Spring and summer seems to belong to them.