Posted by:
thatsnotmyname
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Date: December 21, 2015 04:04PM
married to TBM, with kids, still in the church community. But I hate not being open about my beliefs and want to be able to speak freely. I know that if I speak freely now I will be excommunicated. I would like to leave the church on my own terms. Also I just can't stand not knowing if the very few friends remaining are only my friends because they don't know I have left the realm of doubt and am now 100% positive the church is a fraud.
Advice? Personal anecdotes?
The kids still go to church half-time but perhaps after the last reaches the age of accountability they will stop going because, as I pointed out to my spouse, HE is the one who subscribes to the belief they can make their own choices at the age of 8 and therefore if they choose not to go he should not make them (the youngest does NOT want to go)...