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Date: March 24, 2011 01:14PM
I live in a larger city along the Wasatch front. My oldest daughter is in 6th grade at a charter school. None of her neighborhood, i.e. ward friends, go to school with her but most of her class is LDS. She has been friends with these kids ever since she got in the school 4 years ago. We stopped going to church about a year ago because we realized it was all a lie and we didn't want to live that life any more. But my daughter has never told her school friends she isn't Mormon now. The kids in the neighborhood know, because we are never at church, and they are still nice to her - I think they want her to think Mormons are nice and make her want to come to church again. She doesn't want to go back to church at all. We are attending a local evangelical church.
Also, we are still members - we don't want to resign because one of the grandparents is really, really sick and going downhill fast and we don't want to upset this person by them somehow finding out their children/grandchildren have resigned. We can wait until they have passed to resigned. So the ward members still think there is hope for us.
Anyway, my daughter really wants to tell her school friends she isn't Mormon now but I'm worried that these friends will ditch her and snub her. Only one of the friends at this school is not LDS and it's a little boy. We are moving next August and she will be going to the neighborhood junior high and making new friends. I think she should just lay low for the rest of the school year but she says she doesn't like that no one knows she doesn't believe all their Mormon stuff. It really bugs me that my daughter has to deal with this sort of religious nonsense so young - if we didn't live in Utah, no one would care about religion at age 11. I think girls at this age are pretty snotty to begin with and I don't want her last few months of school to be miserable, but I don't want to teach her to live a lie either.
Help!