Posted by:
xcult
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Date: March 09, 2016 07:29PM
As a woman, the last man on Earth I would want, is one who didn't want me. I hope that clarifies things for you, but if not, read on.
Let me be your wife for a moment.
"I love my husband, but he hardly touches me at all anymore, and when he does, it feels like he's just going through the motions. He gets more excited about biking up the mountain than he does about me."
"His TBM kids drive me nuts, and I can barely bite my tongue about all their "delightsome" activities. Of course they come before me, as they should, but I'm so tired of playing second fiddle to kids who consider me to be Satan's whore. If I didn't love my husband, I would certainly try to open their eyes to the real whore, that Joseph Smith, who they worship. I'm sure that they can't wait for him to ditch me and reconnect with their mother"
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Okay, I admit I made a lot of assumptions here, but I'm sure you can apply reality, and get my drift. You do her no favor by staying, if you can only play-act at loving her as your primary relationship. She and you both deserve to be mated to your best friend. If you never really had that with her, then yes, leaving is better than faking it.
Caveat: Mid-life crisis. Ask a counselor.
http://www.webmd.com/men/features/mens-midlife-crisis